This Move of healing up process is all about purging yourself of this suffering out of narcissistic behaviour - that could keep you as part of anger, resentment to despair : so that you can separate even more far from on narcissistic muck. Therefore whenever narcissistic characteristics lies, fabricates stories towards discredit you, work to you then gaslights we, you'll have reclaimed enough of your very own foundation to truth to not react using painful thoughts or even statements concerning the way could he/she accomplish that in my experience?